Why do men want to have sex? So here are several reasons why.
1)Horny.
2) Maybe he likes her.
3) Strictly a conquest.
4) Because he is trying to find the piece to his puzzle.
So let me break it down and see if you can relate.
Horny, aroused: feeling that creates a great sexual desire; "feeling horny" is a state of mind and some times its requires a moment of pleasure that offers some physical release?
Some men's ideal of getting to know a woman is having sex. Of course a woman's ideal of getting to know a man is conversation and interaction. Would you believe that both actions create the same reaction? You see when a man has sex with women he is able to touch her body and mind and achieve a level of intimacy with her... When a woman has achieved the connection from conversation she is willing to share her body and mind and create that same level of intimacy. Men don't want to wait to achieve for intimacy while women do!
Strictly a conquest, it is what it is. Sometimes we see a women that we want but as soon as we get it, its not what we expected... All that gliters is not gold!!! Nothing more frustrating to get with someone who is a total bore or a dead weight in bed...
Every mans goal in life is to find that one true woman that he can provide for, protect and profess his love for her. What I have witnessed in life that sex allows you to grow. Maybe women don't like sex... Well I don't really believe that but in the beginning of the relationship 90% falls on the man. Women control what he gets, if he gets it, how he gets it and last of all why he gets it. Honestly speaking their is not one woman in the world that can disagree with what I have said. Women use sex as a tool. You see with a little sugar and the promise of what he is going to get she can control the world!!!
Often I've heard women complaining that she just meet a man and he wants to have sex. Okay, This is the mans come back, I just meet old girl and she is talking about she needs help with her bills. Heard that before? The key is everyone has a agenda, some good some bad but they have one.
As a man he can express himself in many ways, with gifts, affection and sex. So when a man gives one of 2 he expects the third. I know that sounds shallow, but think about it like this ladies if you dated a guy for 6 months with no sex. Then you finally decided to give yourself and it was horrible. Would you stay? What if it was really was to small? Would you consider your time wasted? So imagine as a man and you got with a woman and it was sad, would you expect us to stay? No difference? The key is that you both have to be on the same page or someone always feel used.
Now I can not speaking for every man but I have gain this incite threw my years of dealing with women. Generally speaking when a man has sex with a woman he not only gets to learn about the woman but he knows immediately if they are compatible mentally and physically. This is how I look at sex. It is a perquisite for me to get to know the woman. When a woman looks at sex it has a specific meaning to her. She has developed feelings for the man and wants to share herself with the man. The point I am trying to make is that we both want the same thing, just at different times!
As a man he can express himself in many ways, with gifts, affection and sex. So when a man gives one of 2 he expects the third. I know that sounds shallow, but think about it like this ladies if you dated a guy for 6 months with no sex. Then you finally decided to give yourself and it was horrible. Would you stay? What if it was really was to small? Would you consider your time wasted? So imagine as a man and you got with a woman and it was sad, would you expect us to stay? No difference? The key is that you both have to be on the same page or someone always feel used.
Now I can not speaking for every man but I have gain this incite threw my years of dealing with women. Generally speaking when a man has sex with a woman he not only gets to learn about the woman but he knows immediately if they are compatible mentally and physically. This is how I look at sex. It is a perquisite for me to get to know the woman. When a woman looks at sex it has a specific meaning to her. She has developed feelings for the man and wants to share herself with the man. The point I am trying to make is that we both want the same thing, just at different times!
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